Discover your level of emotional awareness with our quick and easy 15-question Emotional Intelligence Assessment. This quiz is designed to help you understand how well you recognize, manage, and communicate your emotions in relationships and everyday life. Whether you often feel emotionally overwhelmed or struggle to express your feelings, this quiz will give you insights into your current emotional awareness and offer guidance on where you can improve.
Question 1 of 15
When I feel upset, I often suppress my emotions rather than express them
Almost never
Occasionally
Frequently
Almost Always
Question 2 of 15
I often feel emotional or anxious but can't pinpoint the exact reason
Almost always
Question 3 of 15
When I try to explain my emotions to my partner, I often feel misunderstood.
Question 4 of 15
I am aware of what triggers my emotional reactions (both positive and negative).
Yes, I can usually identify them
Sometimes, but not always.
I struggle to recognize my triggers.
I am rarely aware of what triggers my emotions.
Question 5 of 15
When I feel overwhelmed by stress, I find it hard to manage my emotions around my partner.
Question 6 of 15
When I feel hurt, I often react in ways that I regret later.
Question 7 of 15
I take time to process my emotions before responding in a heated situation.
Often
Sometimes
Rarely
Question 8 of 15
When my partner seems upset, I usually notice right away, even if they don’t say anything.
Question 9 of 15
Your partner is upset about something you did. How do you typically respond?
I Listen calmly and try to understand their perspective
I listen but sometimes I feel defensive
I often feel upset and struggle to hear them
I respond with my own frustrations and avoid their concerns
Question 10 of 15
I can easily put myself in my partner’s shoes when they express their feelings to me.
Question 11 of 15
During a disagreement, I find it difficult to express my own needs without feeling defensive.
Question 12 of 15
When I feel hurt during a conflict, I can still stay focused on resolving the issue.
Question 13 of 15
When conflict arises, I make an effort to understand my partner’s emotions before responding.
Question 14 of 15
When I am stressed from work or other responsibilities, I am able to keep that stress from negatively affecting my relationship.
Question 15 of 15
I make a conscious effort to process my emotions before bringing them into my relationship.